32 Elegant Ways to Kindly Request an Adults-Only Wedding
Make it clear on your wedding invitation WHO is invited by these simple ways!
Read moreInvitation Assembly!
Assembling your invitations on your own? It’s time-consuming but so much fun! I have a few videos to share and links to follow to help you along the way. Find all the links to the products I use at the bottom of the blog post!
Linked below is my favorite tape gun for all the following projects!
How to Adhere the Envelope Liner for Wedding Invitations
Invitation Assembly Order
Seal your envelopes with these glue pens, they are fabulous!
Be My Valentine Giveaway!
Be My Valentine Giveaway!
My favorite North Texas Wedding Vendors and I have come together to give you an amazing Valentines Day Giveaway! Are you engaged?! Are you a North Texas Bride?! Win this for your partner! All you need to do is below:
1) Tag at least 2 people on the Instagram Post here.
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We can’t wait to give this amazing huge gift basket away with freebies and amazing things to celebrate your engagement!
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Giveaway Details, what you will receive!
• 2-3 Letter Semi-Custom Wedding Monogram Design by CW Designs Stationery ($150 value)
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Monograms - The ins & outs
What is the Proper Monogram for Married Couples?
Monograms are elegant motifs using initials. These wedding details stand out to your guest and symbolize the unity of the spouses as they begin their journey as one.
Monograms can be extravagant or take on a more traditional minimalist design. Monograms aren’t just for embroidered clothing anymore, here are some unique designs and ways to incorporate your monogram in unique ways! They are another keepsake that is meant to symbolize your unity.
Couple Monograms
Personalizing your wedding celebration will bring that connection and touch of elegance to your celebration. You can get creative with your spouse by selecting your initials and crafting them on linens, invitations, programs, menu’s, seating charts, reception drinkware, and much more.
Traditionally the bride will take the groom's last name after taking their vows, so in creating a classic monogram, the bride's first name initial appears first, followed by the groom's surname, and finally, the groom's first initial.
· For instance: Elena Yvette Gilbert and Jeremy William Gilbert
· The joint monogram is EGJ, with the center letter slightly larger than the rest.
Types of Monograms
From a minimalist, classical, or contemporary design, a customized monogram can capture much more than your initials, it can capture your bond. Typically, a more traditional wedding has a monogram with letters of equal size, but if you are a bit bolder another sophisticated design would highlight the center letter with a distinctive style and/or size.
For initials of the same size, arrange the letters sequentially, starting from the first, middle then the last. If the middle letter is larger, begin with the first, last, and finally, the middle initial. There is always room for creativity, but keeping a recognizable structure will ensure the design stands the test of time.
Customized Designs
Weddings should be unique and feature iconic and creative designs that bring back fond memories and instant recognition by your guests. Choosing personal design touches adds a level of sophistication to weddings, anniversaries, and celebrations. Your monogram can even incorporate subtle graphics and illustrations that capture your loves and interests. A classic monogram isn’t just used on your wedding day, it is meant to live on as a symbol of your unity going forward in all of life’s celebrations
Where to Use Monograms
Adding your monogram to other areas of your celebration is a great way to add exclusivity to an extravagant wedding or a dash of sophistication to a relaxed reception. There really isn’t a rule to where you can use your monogram, but here are a few suggestions.
· Cups & Glasses
· Napkins/Linen’s
· Can Coolers
· Menus & Seating Charts
· Plates
· Cocktail Stirrers
· Candles
· Lighting & Projection
· Board Games / Playing Cards
Taking some time to add personalized touches to your wedding day can make it more memorable for you and your guests. There are numerous ways couples have used their monograms that we haven’t even mentioned, so think outside the box, get creative and let’s get to work on making your day truly memorable.
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Sealing wax is a wax material of a seal which, after melting, hardens quickly forming a bond that is difficult to separate without noticeable tampering. Wax is used to verify something such as a document is unopened, to verify the sender's identity, for example with a signet ring, and as decoration.
When Words Really Matter: Invitations
A wedding invitation is typically the first contact your guests have with your nuptial event. The big day's announcement sets the tone of the wedding and includes all the essential details guests need to know about your wedding. It’s likely something they’ll keep it handy up to the day of and even bring the invitation with them to the wedding itself. And it's something you'll probably keep forever, too. Some couples frame their invitation or make it part of their wedding day photos.
With so much behind an invitation, it's important to choose words wisely, carefully consider the design, send them in a timely manner (6 - 8 weeks before the event is standard) and make your guests feel ready for the event. Now that we see how vital the invitation is, let's look at the language. Specifically, what must be included in the invite and why:
What wording should be included in an invitation?
Here are the most critical parts of an invitation:
· Announce the wedding hosts – who is inviting them to this wedding? Who is getting married?
· Wedding location, date and time – all the essential details
· Dress code – how should gusts dress? If the wedding will be outdoors, this is a great time to tell guests to be prepared for any weather.
· RVSP procedure (if no enclosure cards are given) – how should gusts indicate they’ll attend? Check out more information about the RSVP card here.
Here’s more information about each line of the invitation and suggestions for wording formal weddings versus informal ones. Remember, the language you use in your wedding invitation should reflect you as a couple and the tone of the event.
Host line: is where you will indicate the wedding host’s name. The host line will always appear at the very top of the invitation card. You should format the names of the hosts (those who are paying for the wedding) as required by the wedding invitation rules. Some tips: Use the phrase ‘the late’ if the host is deceased and include the hosts remarried name if they have remarried.
Request line: is requesting your guests’ presence. If it's informal, this line may be 'please join us' or, for a more formal wedding, 'the honor of your presence is requested.'
Action: this explains what's happening at the event. Some examples would be: 'the celebration of their union' or 'at the marriage of their daughter.'
Couples names: your name and your partner's name at the center and front of the invitation card. For mixed-gender couples, the bride's name typically goes first. For same-sex couples, the names can appear in alphabetical order. Formal invitations will include first and last names; informal invites will list the first name only.
Date, time and location: all the crucial details. When listing the venue, remember to list the name of the venue, city and state. It’s not necessary to add a street address, but it’s suggested if it’s a private residence.
Reception line: this is typically at the bottom of the card and lets the wedding guests know what will follow after the ceremony. Wording generally is 'reception to immediately follow' if it's a venue or church wedding or informal language could be 'dinner, drinks and dancing to follow.'
Notes on grammar
Grammar and wording are incredibly important when writing your wedding invitation. Remember to use simple language that every guest will understand and try to avoid extra or unnecessary words. Use uppercase letters for dates and lower case for all numbers. Finally, always proofread before printing the copy. It may be a good idea to have several people read the invitation before printing to avoid costly reprints.
This blog post is a collaboration with the wonderful ladies over at RK Weddings and Events. Find them and their awesome wedding planning on social media.
